About Me

 Grew up in Newark from a Military/Government style family background. I have always had a strong sense and need for control/power ever since I can remember. Even in high school that need for power turned sexual as I would work the boys up, tease them and left them in the dust. Yes, I was that girl that received immense pleasure in controlling them and watching them grovel at My feet. Knowing I had that control was/is arousing to say the least, I was trained in the lifestyle by my great aunt who happens to be a domme. You'll need to ask me for how that happened if you're interested in knowing.

My expertise is incomparable; I will take you into My world and allow you to experience Domination in its purest from, you will feel exhilarated and renewed when I am done with you. 

Personally:

I am a professional business owner/CEO with a back ground in Marketing and sales, I have also been a model, Life Coach, Marketing Manager, writer (articles) and Dominatrix. Personally as a lifestyle Domme I spend My free time with the local community when time permits and I am currently the Head Mistress and Founder of Elite Fem Society a Femme Domme and male submissive lifestyle group open to admitting submissive willing to be registered. We plan and organize kink events and parties however discrete you want it.

My hobby of the Human Psychosis helps Me wrap Myself into your mind, taking over your fantasies and making them My own. I will push your limits, but never cross your boundaries and I will use your body in a way that will make you continue to yearn for Me.  My rapport with My clients is VERY important. Whether you choose to meet with Me only once or reoccurring, I assure you that you will experience a discreet and safe encounter while you are in My presence and play space or dungeon if thats your preference.   

 My ambitions are to hopefully complete a PHD in Psychology one day specializing in human sexuality.  However if it is something I do not do I still feel I have achieved much, especially with how young I am.  I can honestly say I am a fulfilled and happy person who has seen much and done even more and I want to keep going.

A little more about me...

 I consider Myself a sensual sadist as well as fetishist and relish in working with novices to experienced players. My play can range from light tease & denial to heavy and sadistic. Think you can handle me as I own you and use you as My puppet? Now is the time to test your submissiveness and limits as I currently hold sessions in  my dungeon located in Los Angeles and some other locations depending on how far you're willing to prove your commitment to the lifestyle.

I will seduce you into doing things that you never thought you would do or too nervous to allow yourself to express. Without fail you will find yourself submitting effortlessly and completely under My control as I feed your kinky desires and fetish. I thrive on full interaction and chemistry as we scroll thru the depths of your mind. My strict disciplinary nature will redirect your behavior to allow you to properly serve me, as I take complete pleasure in your suffering.

You can find some of My Adult Femdom performances on such sites as Club Dom, Subby Hubby, Real Time Bondage, Men Are Slaves, Female Worship, Divine Bitches, Whipped Ass and Cum Eating Cuckolds. Please note that I do not offer sexual services nor nudity during My sessions approaching Me about such activities will cease communication, you have to be in my good grace if you want an exception.

My Kinks and Fetishes...Tick my box.

My experience in the Domination scene started at the age of 19 for Me although I've been curious ever since i witnessed my great aunt in session with one of the bulls in her stables, story for another day 😊😊 I had always loved manipulating men and found it easy to get what I wanted from them.  I enjoyed being pampered, I enjoyed physically and mentally degrading submissives; using their minds and their body’s for My pure satisfaction and amusement thrilled Me beyond words and continues to this very day.

 Demanding & Strict yet Sensual and Seductive.  Most would say I am a suburban snob; I am elegant yet kinky with a twisted dark side.  I carry Myself with poise and like a Lady, but at times cuss like a sailor and can whisper the naughtiest things to you as well as use strong commands that will bring you to your knees.

 I find it humorous when I meet a submissive man how quickly he becomes erect in My presence, a clear indication that I am in control once the blood rushes from his brain to in-between his legs.

I enjoy the eroticism of BDSM, the power exchange and the control I command over men.  Its so easy to control men; I have been doing it for many years and am a natural Dominant which you will see as soon as we meet.

Assertive, aggressive, spunky, playful, seductive and kinky is everything you will find in Me, I assure you I am different, you will not find Me forced into an act or a certain demeanor or behavior, everything about My persona as a Fem Domme is natural and not forced.

 Whether you seek a sensual Fetish Session or an intense Domination experience, you will find Me extremely versatile and open-minded.

I’ve always had crazy curiosity & love for the kinky side of thing and have played with kink or fetish in My personal life ever since I can remember. Some of My personal lifestyle Kinks include.

Corporal Punishment

Ass Smothering

Humiliation/Degradation/Objectification

Cross Dressing/Sissifcation

Slut Training/Painal

Toilet Fantasies

Wax play

Slave Training/Behavior Modification

Sensual Domination/Tease and Denial/Body Worship

Bondage

Medical Play

Electrostimulation

Foot Worship/Boot Domination/Trampling

Elaborate Role Plays

Physical Domination/Fantasy Wrestling/Beat Downs

CBT/NT/BB

Chastity Training

Latex/Leather/Nylon Worship

Cuckolding Fantasies

Financial Domination/Shopping Sprees/Lunch & Dinner Outings

Distance Training - phone and cam

Double Domme Session - love sessioning with other Mistresses, Where the kink parties and events come to play. I bet you'll enjoy it to.

If you don't see your particular fetish or interest you may politely inquire.

Professionally:

As a professional Dominatrix I find discretion imperative for both Myself and My clients.  My reputation as a Lifestyle Fem-Domme and professional Dominatrix are important, if you do a little research you will find I am reputable yet reserved.

GIFTING ME...Who doesn't love the gesture? A Queen ought to be treated as one.

 Gifts I Love:

* MADEMOISELLE by Coco Chanel.  Eau de Parfum.  Lotions, powders, wash etc.

* Godiva Chocolate.  

* Red Wine or dry Champagne. I love Chandon Brut and Veuve

* White wines of high quality Sauvignon Blanc (California or French) White Bordeaux, Good Chardonnay. 

* Basil Hayden's Bourbon

* Angels Envy Bourbon (Very hard to find but very good).

* Gift certificates to Macy's (this is where I get some of My cosmetics and skin care from independent companies).  

* ITunes gift cards (I love music).  

* MAC cosmetics gift cards

* Starbucks gift cards.  

* Sephora Gift cards

* Americans express gift cards

* Red roses. 

* Visa gift cards

* Walmart gift cards 

* Star gazer lilies.  

* I love to go shoe shopping if you ever want to go with Me and spoil Me with new shoes.  I wear a size 10 shoe if you wish to bring Me a pair.

* Spa gift certificates in the Fairfax area.  

* Yankee Candle gift cards or candles. (I like spicy or fruity fragrances, as well as Lavender; NOT the clean or cotton fragrances.  I LOVE different Pumpkin fragrances for candles).  

* Lavender bath products.

Surprise me often and watch me train you to be the desire of every other mistresses. 

I could go on with list of things I love to be gifted with but I'll stop now. A submissive that gifts its Mistress is in for a ride and yeah I send out gifts to deserving subs. To the panty sniffers I bet you'll enjoy the ride.😉😉  

Oh Yeah! Some few Dos and Don'ts. Nothing too Extra.

 Whether you are applying to serve me personally or professionally there are a few things I need you to understand and comply with if we are to have any relationship at all. I appreciate your cooperation in advance.

First of all I need you to understand and that I am a professional and that this is My business. There are many things that I need to consider that extend beyond your comfort or desires and some of those things are of greater importance.

Safety, the law, My well being, these are all things I, as a professional, need to take into account and consider before I consider accommodating you. That means that the following policies and procedures are non-negotiable.

1. To engage with Me in any capacity you must be at least 18 years old and able to prove it.

2. To engage with Me in any capacity you must be Sober and of Sound Mind.

Please don’t underestimate the importance of those two stipulations. Safe, Sane & Consensual is the Law that we live by.

3. I only want to be contacted through My Email/Number, All other forms of Social Media are reviewed by members of My Staff to ensure that abusive and inappropriate messages aren’t making their way to Me. Out of courtesy to My Clients and Potential Clients I read messages that come through from my Website Myself. I keep any information you share with Me confidential.

4. Before I can agree to see you I need to know who you are, and before I can assess what I can offer you, I need to know your interests, your experience, your limits and how serious you are about utilizing My services.

5. Once I have read and decided to respond to your application I will either ask for more information or give you further instructions. All in person Workshops & reservations require a deposit.

6. I have a Zero Tolerance Policy on Bigotry. If you have a problem with Gay or Bisexual people, Trans People, Black People, Muslim People, Any group of People for anything they can’t or shouldn’t change, I won’t work with you. Personal opinions aside, I don’t make house calls and the places I take my meetings, appointments and host my workshops are all places that should be safe environments for marginalized people; if I entertain someone who might cause a problem in an environment like that, I jeopardize the safety of everyone there and I’m not willing to do that. I can be understanding of ignorance & naivety, but I take Bigotry, and abusive behavior in general, very seriously.

7. I expect you to be aware of My interests and limits which are clearly stated on my Ads.

8. It’s important to Me that you have good health and hygiene when coming to see Me. If I am worried about you, or uncomfortable because you smell unpleasant, that is going to have a huge effect on the quality of our time together. If I have to ask you to shower or reschedule, that will come out of your time and pocket so please make sure you are washed before arriving to meet with Me. If you are sick, I cannot see you.

9. I want you to arrive right on time, not early and not late. When you arrive early you cut into My time, and when you arrive late you cut into your own time.

10. You will not be able to reach Me before you arrive the day of your appointment. I do not work for anyone, so there are only two things they can help you with, that’s parking instructions and their address. It’s up to you to get directions before you head out.

11. Confidentiality goes both ways. The only time I’ll share your information or secrets is if I’m ordered to by a judge, if you’re harassing or threatening Me, or if I believe you are a danger to yourself or others. I expect that courtesy to go both ways. While I don’t expect you to sneak around or hide in a closet, I do expect you to be discreet and respect My privacy.

Finally, My days of operation are Sunday – Friday. 

  Remember, all Reservation Requests must be made at least 12 hours in advance.

You do not have a reservation unless your deposit is made and we have agreed on a date & time. Your deposit will either serve as a Consultation Fee or a Cancellation Fee in the unlikely event you miss your reservation.

Thank you for taking the time to read My Protocols and in advance for respecting it.

I also sell used items at affordable prices;

Ankle and knee socks $35

Stockings and over the knee socks $45

Pantyhose and panties $60

Flats and sneakers $75

Heels and boots $100

To make a reservation with me you must first and foremost be an adult, that means at very least 18 years of age or older, you must be ready to answer necessary questions. You must be of sound mind and body which means not only calm but also sober. If you are intoxicated or under the influence of drugs to any degree you cannot consent to a transaction in which case your reservation will be terminated.

Text me for my Schedule and rates.